I've been debating whether or not to discuss this and I'd LOVE some feedback. Today's topic is cheating. To the ladies, I ask what would be an excusable reason for cheating? Men I ask when are we justified for cheating? I think all to often we have a false perception of what cheating is really all about. Countless studies have shown that for men it's usually about sex and for women it's usually emotional. That may be true but once the cat's out the bag, what are the ground rules? We all have our limits and I am by no means condoning cheating, however I don't believe it's that simple. (I don't necessarily believe in monogamy either so my perspective is a little different.) The deal breaker for me is violating whatever arrangement we have, otherwise I charge it to the game. I think we as women would be better off if we understood that it happens. It can happen to anyone. Doesn't matter how rich, beautiful or powerful. It's human nature. Instead of blaming ourselves or accepting the humiliation that comes from being betrayed by cheating all women should have a plan b. It's not hard ladies. I'm sure you've been approached by someone or perhaps there's someone from your past or current life that you felt a connection with. Keep that in the bag so that you have a nice soft cushion to fall back on in case things don't work out in your current situation. It sounds harsh and deceitful but as long as you're clear with your plan b, there shouldn't be a problem. Just make sure your plan b is available when you need him. This means keeping in touch often but not too often. You'd be surprised how many men are willing to be your spare. Use what you've to get what you need ladies! There's nothing more rewarding than the satisfaction of knowing you've got the upper hand no matter how slick a man may think he is. And by all means ladies leave the next woman's man alone. If he has a woman,don't be a home wrecker, politely move on. Karma is a bitch!